Last night I went to my Grandma's house for dinner. Of course, in typical Grandma fashion, I had told her on the phone that I don't really like applesauce. But then at her house, she said
( dialogue that doesn't necessarily make sense )And so on.
She can't have it both ways. She can't want me to be thin, and push all this food on me and complain that I won't eat enough. I'm sorry, I don't have super fast metabolism. In order for me to look the way you'd like to, I have to eat less than you want to serve me. If I were to eat as much as you'd like me to, I'd gain weight. Make up your mind!
Not that I'd say that out loud. *sigh*
Pride and Prejudice was realy good. The guy who plays Darcy was soooo hot! *swoon!*
I decided that Darcy is an engineer. Just look at the scene where he comes in, stands in front of Elizabeth, staring at her for 5 minutes, and awkwardly runs out, having said very little at all. Totally engineer.
kressel, did you ever finish that fanfic?
And just to screw up the chronology:
When I came in, Grandma told me she had a surprise for me.
In her room, on her desk, was a small Jewelry box. And inside it was a ring.
It was oval shaped, with 4 medium-ish diamonds surrounded by shiny silver and smaller pieces of diamond [I think] stones. I asked, and yes they're real. Apparently it was my great grandmother's "dinner ring." So Grandma saved it for me for my 21st birthday, even though that's not for another 2 months.
She said I could use it however I want. So if I were to get engaged and my fiance couldn't afford a ring, we could get this one re-set to make it look engagementy, and I'd have a ring. Or I can just keep it in the safe-deposit box at the bank, where it sits now, in case there comes a time (chas v'shalom) where I would have to sell it. Or I could wear it for dinner parties or something. There isn't so much this ring could be worn for as it is now, because it's too nice for anything I ever attend. I'd have to be invited to a ball or something.
Part of me thinks that even if my future husband, whoever he will be, could afford a ring, it would be better to use this one, and save the 3,000-10,000$ he would spend on it for something more useful, like buying a house. I'm not so big into giant expensive weddings, but one thing I would never part with is having an engagement ring, because I've always wanted to be able to wear one. I find them so beautiful. But I have no problems with having a cheap but valueable ring. Maybe I could use one or two diamonds, make the rest into a pendant, and surround the ring diamonds with another stone, like emeralds, which are far less expensive. The possibilties are endless.
All of this requires getting engaged, which I'm nowhere near doing.